Bob 10 (Experienced or Inexperienced?)

I started to think about this when one of my friends recently confessed to me he’s never had sex, and if you see him you’d expect him to be the biggest man whore ever! I was surprised and happy at the same time because if guys like him are still “good boys” then I think there’s still hope for me to marry that guy who’ll be a virgin.

When I was like 16, I was describing to one of my friends the guy I wanna marry. He had to be tall, tanned, hot, and sweet and he’d be a virgin. At that time I really believed that guys don’t do it, because you know its against our religion and everything, I mean its pushing it to the extreme. However, that friend broke my bubble and was laughing her ass off when I told her that. I was confused, because I didn’t really ask for something bizarre. She told me.

“Your living in this fantasy world that guys don’t have sex, well let me break to you honey, every guy in the country had sex and if you find one that hasn’t he’s probably retarded.” I couldn’t look at guys the same anymore, I just concluded that every guy I see is a “dirty boy”.

After that little info that changed how I saw men, I started thinking, do I wanna be married to someone who’s experienced in that field or someone who’s just like me new to it all?

The great thing about me not being his first would be that he’d know his way around and knows what turns a girl on. Nevertheless, he’d probably compare me with every girl he’s been and I’d feel the need to work really hard to be the best he’s ever had.

But if I was his first and probably his only, he’d never compare me with anyone else and I wouldn’t question my abilities. However, it does have its disadvantages because we’d both be new to it all and we’d need the 101 on everything. Then again, practice makes perfect.